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Studying In A New Country

by Sidrah Zaheer
(Karachi, Sindh, Pakistan)

When a kid spends his or her formative years at a place, he or she is bound to get attached to not only the neighborhood but the school as well. Especially, leaving out your friends behind and moving to a new place is hard to deal with for adults, let alone its pressure for the kids. The old place is not only a familiar ground, but it has warmth of bittersweet memories that are hard to let go of. Leaving this coziness is a tough act to adjust to.

When kids have to leave their schools to go study in a new city, not to talk about a scenario where they have to study in a totally different country altogether, it is not easy to switch to a new line of thought and accommodate an approach to move on just instantly. It takes time for kids to realize that they will not be studying in the same school anymore, nor would they be meeting their friends and teachers they love and care about. Missing their place and the people they know is inevitable.

When I first came to study in a new school that was in a different country than I was living in, I had to adjust to many things. The many things included as little a thing as perhaps how you say hello and greet another person to how you behave all over around new people. Their opening to you as a newcomer and your ability to adjust are the two factors that are paramount in making a school changing experience either an easy or a difficult one.

Due to differences in time zones, the entire routine gets affected and tends influence both our mental and emotional moods. For kids in particular, having their way with moods is very necessary.

If a kid has a specific time when he or she wants to perform a certain task, because he or she is in a habit of doing it then, the time difference will be a major component in defining now about whether he or she could do it with same energy and concentration levels. This aspect of time absolutely holds true when it comes to completing school homework and assignments, which could then consequently have an impact on their academic performance and progress report.

I for one still recall back to my 10th grade and how better I could have performed had my father been not in an avoidable situation of changing his job. So, a simple way to handle an unavoidable circumstance with the kids is to let them be prepared for any kind of a situation in terms of their school change or moving to a new place for any reason. This prior readiness seeps in to make room for an adjustment in a kid’s mind, and he or she can embrace a new situation and learn quickly to be adaptable.

Do not put a pressure of good performances in study and do not reprimand if their progress does not show high graphs, because your support in such a time is of utmost importance for them to carry forward successfully.

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Studying In A New Country

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Apr 03, 2011
your comments about the Santana school in Cuenca
by: GoSouthExpat

We would greatly appreciate it if you shared your comments about the Santana school in our School Guide for parents of future expat students to see.

While we realize we're asking you to post the same information again, we consider it important. You can re-word it and share your experience in greater detail if you like - or not.

We cannot move your comments to our School Guide forum because your inserted your comments as a response to a different person's post. Would you mind doing this?

Apr 03, 2011
My kids in Santana
by: Anonymous

I recently had to make a move from Florida to Cuenca with my two girls. I heard that Santana was the best school in Cenca and was bilingual. I am now having major problems with this school. I wish they would read your post. I don't think they take into consideration the huge adjustment and extra time kids from another country need to finish assignments. This school is not bilingual. It is all in spanish. They expect the child to learn in two months and adjust. They focus on the academics when they should focus on the emotional stability of the child and realize how hard this must be on a child that not only just moved from a familiar enviroment but does not speak the languge. I heard many good things about this school and one of them was that it caters to international children. If they did they would have after school programs t help them adjust. They don't. Programs should be offered to new students after school to meet and gather and share thoughts and practice the language together. Is their a school out there?

Apr 01, 2011
being the "new" kid at school
by: Anonymous

Thank you Sidrah for sharing this. I too know how it feels to be the new kid at school all the time. It's devastating to leave the familiar behind. Your description is spot-on. It's nice to know others understand. That's really helpful in healing.

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